Stress? What stress? I don't got no stinking stress!

[soulsearcher1968]

Ladies. I am convinced that I am going to be lost, right up to the minute of walking down the aisle.
I feel no stress what so ever, actually. BUT.... I know that things are falling WAY behind.
OK...


ceremony - take the check to the church.
make flower stuff
Where the heck is my dress and FH's stuff?
Take dog (ring bearer) to the groomers
Get the ring bearer horseshoe
My photographer is MIA


Reception - order the appetizer trays
Finalize the dinner menu
Print menus, seating chart, place cards
FH finish the candles and our carved log
Make table flower vases and lasso decorations


Motel - Double check the reservations and get exact quote


**** Set up spa day for wrap and facial and stuff
Set up day to get my hair dyed and highlighted and trimmed
Make up picnic basket for our room
Get together all the stuff for decorating the truck

(not including all the stuff I am trying to do at the house)

That should be it. I know a couple of the things on there will make you go . For some silly reason, I feel no panic yet.
I just look at the ticker and go....hmmmm,

[Heather]

I was pretty calm for most of the time too. The only time I stressed was when I was sitting in the middle of our guest bedroom surrounded by empty gift bags for the hotel guests. I made up 50 of them and individually wrapped every single thing in each one.

It was times like those that made me wish I still enjoyed the ganja from my college days.

[soulsearcher1968]

Originally Posted by Heather

It was times like those that made me wish I still enjoyed the ganja from my college days.

Heather, you are such a GOOF. I am laughing so hard my sides hurt.
Girl, YOU ROCK!!! I needed that laugh.

I honestly don't think I will panic until like 2 days before. Then I will swear the world is falling on my head.

[sparklesweetie]

No fear hon, I didn't really stress out either. The only time that stands out during the planning process..ok, well I guess there's two. 1) My computer crashed the week before, so I think that's a pretty legit reason to freak, lol. 2) The night before the wedding - I had a few minor things to wrap up that would have taken maybe an hour with everyone here (previous arrangements had been made to have a bridal party "slumber party" that night) and my bridal party went MIA until midnight.

Other than that tho it was good, so I'm sure you'll be fine. Although I'm also curious to know where your dress is, lol.

[TheaterDiva1]

The stress didn't really hit me until that week... but I was too busy rehearsing for Hamlet to notice (don't ask!).

You definitely want to do the hair coloring ASAP... that should be done a couple of weeks before. Other than that, write up a schedule of what needs to be done and when it will get done.

And enjoy that spa day!

[m_t_rose]

I feel the same way and I only have 4 days to go. People keep asking "are you excited" and I am always like umm for what? It takes a minute for it to click in. I hope it feels real soon

[soulsearcher1968]

WOW, I can't believe you only have 4 days left. I feel almost panicked for you.

It is a good thing that you are so relaxed. The one thing I have realized about the relaxed feeling is.... You know it is RIGHT, that he is the ONE.
Everything will work out fine for you.

Incase I don't get to talk to you between now and then.
Congratulations and Wonderful Blessings for your Beautiful Day.

[southern belle]

i would be big time panicked if i had that much still left to do and only two weeks to do it. my hats off to you. lol