invitation wording for high tea reception

[imstilldreaming]

I need some help!

I'm thinking of doing a tea and pastry reception. (Feel free to see my thread in Receptions to make suggestions!!) At first I was thinking of making it more formal, with waiters bringing around tea and cakes, etc. But all of our family and friends are definitely laid back, mingly type people that probably wouldn't enjoy themselves in that kind of atmosphere. How do I word on the invitation that the reception will not be a full meal and will be a light affair? More like a cocktail party, sans alcohol. 'High tea', what I thought of putting, presents a more formal idea than I'm trying to communicate. HEELLLLPPP!

[wynelle]

You don't need to put the type of reception, because the time of the wedding/reception is what determines how much food you should serve, and what people should anticipate.

If it is a two pm wedding, then the reception would start anywhere from 2:30 to 3:300-- that is very much in the range of cake/punch, or high tea, or even passed appetizers. And with a wedding at that time, people would normally have eaten before coming, and would have plenty of time at the reception before going to dinner or home.

Also with a midday wedding, people are not generally anticipating a lot of food or any alcohol, so champagne for a toast would be pleasant.

[555Ann555]

I think that sounds like a really lovely idea for a reception. And I agree with Wynelle, you shouldn't really state on the invite what type of reception you are going for. However if anyone asks you you can mention, same for your family & bridal party. I think it would be best left as word of mouth.

[AngelRoseFyre]

I agree. If your really want to put something though, maybe put a reception card in with the invitation, and have some kind of little tea picture on it or something with wording such as: "We request the honor of your presence at our High Tea Reception to be held following the wedding."