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sparklesweetie · #1 06-01-2006, 10:54 PM

Soooo...I was thinking again (dangerous, I know). We have one GM who has not gone in to be measured, and I'm pretty much fed up with holding his hand to get it done. Anyhow, I think he's missed the deadline to get his tux, so now I'm thinking of how to arrage the BP at the ceremony...
I have 1 MOH and 3 BM, he has one GM. Now, I'm honestly not that particular about the sides being "even" but since there is a bit of a space crunch, there's no point in being squished if we can spread out a bit. FH is thinking about asking my dad to go ahead and stand up with him, but that was just to even up the sides. Although I'm sure neither my dad or FH would care either way, lol.
So I was thinking about having the MOH on my side and the BM on his, then split the remaining three girls on the sides. However, one BM is his sister, so should she go on the "groom's" side? Or would that be funny? Would it be funny if my friends were on his side? (I'm overthinking this aren't I?) Just a thought...let me know yours.

Sh@ks18 · #2 06-01-2006, 10:59 PM

As a sister, i know i wouldnt mind standing on my brothers side, while your friends stand on your side. I think that would be okay or vise versa

Lizbet · #3 06-01-2006, 10:59 PM

I don't see any problem with splitting the girls if it's what you want. But, unless your friend BMs are as close to your FH as they are to you, I would probably put only his sis on his side as part of the split.

I don't think your friends should stand on his side unless they are truly his friends as well.

fallbride · #4 06-01-2006, 11:00 PM

I dont see a problem with his sister on his side either.

SuzyBride · #5 06-01-2006, 11:30 PM

As a sister I think it would be cool to stand on my brothers side! I don't think any of your other BMs should stand on his side though. But the sis could stay on your side too.. I think either would be fine!

labeadel · #6 06-01-2006, 11:43 PM

I agree with what the others have said. I wouldn't put a BM on his side "just to even it out" though.

sparklesweetie · #7 06-02-2006, 12:09 AM

Thanks ladies! I think I'll go with that...have his sister stand over on his side. Providing she ever goes and gets her dress....

Marge129 · #8 06-02-2006, 01:28 AM

Just chiming in to say have his sister stand with him.