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05-26-2006, 05:40 AM
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BM MIA
The only friend who really stuck by me through my pregnancy and what not has gone missing on me. She's supposed to be my BM but that's not even what I'm really concerned about she was my closest friend and now isn't even returning my calls or e-mails. I dunno I feel a little betrayed, she is even Kenzie's god-mother. I feel like I did somethign wrong but cannot think of what it is I did. Of course I'm also concerned that maybe something serious happened to her. You'd think someone would have contacted me though...
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05-26-2006, 05:49 AM
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I hope she is ok! Maybe she is just been under the weather or really busy. Is she not close enough to go see?
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05-26-2006, 05:52 AM
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That's just it she hasn't been at her moms when I've tried to go by and schools out so she's not there, she was talking about moving in with her fiance but I don't know where that is. I guess I'm going to have to go and ask her mom.
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05-26-2006, 05:53 AM
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Well I hope you find her and every thing is ok. Maybe she has just been busy with the move. Think good thoughts!
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05-26-2006, 02:13 PM
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Maybe she just has something going on right now and has been busy.  I'm sure you'll find out what's going on soon enough, but I know I would be really frustrated, too.
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05-26-2006, 02:16 PM
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I hope that everything is ok!!
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05-26-2006, 03:25 PM
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I would check in with her mom. I hope she's okay, and that if there is a problem on her end, you can resolve it.
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05-26-2006, 03:59 PM
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Kenziesmama, please don't take this the wrong way, but do you think she could be upset b/c you're back together with your man? Maybe she knew how hurt you were and just can't handle it right now? I would definitely check with her Mom to see if she's okay, and then try to get in touch with her and talk about it. I hope that it's a case of being very busy right now...
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05-26-2006, 04:20 PM
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Yes, check with her mom. That's what one of my friends did when I wasn't responding to her emails --- turns out I was just busy and hadn't been on the computer in awhile. 
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05-26-2006, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Heather
Kenziesmama, please don't take this the wrong way, but do you think she could be upset b/c you're back together with your man? Maybe she knew how hurt you were and just can't handle it right now? I would definitely check with her Mom to see if she's okay, and then try to get in touch with her and talk about it. I hope that it's a case of being very busy right now...
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That didn't even occur to me, but Heather may have a point. Kenziesmama - Does your friend know about the recent problems you're having with your relationship?
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05-26-2006, 08:26 PM
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I don't think it is, she's generally more supportive then that. She sat with while I raged the first time he did it. She also got up at 7 am with me to pee on a stick when I thought I might be pregnant. Maybe it is that though. I dunno, I mean she has gone missing when she was super busy before, just never to this extent or this long.
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05-26-2006, 08:29 PM
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I hope everything turns out okay!
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05-26-2006, 09:40 PM
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OMG, my poor hun needs a prayer. She finally called. She's been in Florida, arranging her father's estate. Just about a month before his wedding to the women he's been living with for years, his finance found him in the garage, he had committed suicide.
The only explanation they've found is alot of debt, which they can only assume he was worried to tell his fiance about. Jenn's mother had divorced him over a similiar happening.
She's been back a while but says she's been keeping to herself because she's just having such a hard time with it.
It's just so awful...
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05-26-2006, 09:41 PM
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Oh that is such awful news, no wonder she's been gone so long... Poor girl. 
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05-26-2006, 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted by kenzies_mama
OMG, my poor hun needs a prayer. She finally called. She's been in Florida, arranging her father's estate. Just about a month before his wedding to the women he's been living with for years, his finance found him in the garage, he had committed suicide.
The only explanation they've found is alot of debt, which they can only assume he was worried to tell his fiance about. Jenn's mother had divorced him over a similiar happening.
She's been back a while but says she's been keeping to herself because she's just having such a hard time with it.
It's just so awful...
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That is horrible. I am sorry that I thought she may be avoiding you because of your issues with your FH.
I'm a total dad's girl; I cannot even imagine what I'd be going through if something like this happened. Your friend is in my thoughts.
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05-26-2006, 10:56 PM
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Oh how awful! I'm sorry I thought that too, it's just odd when best friends go missing for a bit. I'm glad she's okay but this must be so hard for her.
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05-27-2006, 04:13 AM
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Oh I know I feel horrible because I was starting to think thigns like that as well.
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05-27-2006, 04:17 AM
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That's horrible. I'm glad she is back home were she can lean on you and has a support network.
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05-27-2006, 11:40 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear about that! My thoughts and prayers go to your friend, Kenziesmama 
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05-30-2006, 04:41 AM
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Oh my gosh! That's terrible! No wonder she was "missing". She's in my thoughts and prayers.
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05-30-2006, 05:15 AM
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She is in my thoughts & prayers. It is so hard to lose someone under those circumstances. I am glad your friend is "ok" (as ok as she can be) and that she has people like you to fall back on!!
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05-30-2006, 01:02 PM
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Oh, wow...I will be praying for her. That is so terrible. I would be such a complete wreck.
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05-30-2006, 03:11 PM
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My thoughts are with her and her family.
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05-30-2006, 03:15 PM
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Wow, I'm so sorry that she is having to deal with this. I can't even imagine going through something like that. But I'm glad that she is okay! It's great that you two are such good friends and that she has you to help her through this.
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