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Old 04-17-2006, 11:45 PM
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my coordinator wants us to give all of our wedding vendors their final payment one month in advance so that Josh and I don't have to worry about any overlooked debt the day of.....but the more i think about it, the more i think this isn't such a good idea....i mean, once we give them all the money what keeps them from just running off with it....the reason why they started the whole pay-half-now-half-later concept was so they were "guaranteed" to do what they agreed...

what did you guys do (or are planning to do)?
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I wouldn't pay them a month in advance. Why not put the amount you owe them in envelopes with their name on it and get the best man or the maid of honor to give the vendors the envelopes?
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that's what I thought we were supposed to do....and I have no problem doing that...

my coordinator's argument is that one wouldn't want vendors bugging them about payments as they were leaving for the bridal suite....but honestly...does that ever really happen?
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I wouldn't pay them ahead of time I would just tell the lady it will be taken care of.
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Old 04-18-2006, 01:09 AM
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I think I put down a deposit and then paid at the wedding or a couple days before. The reception venue required full payment 3 days prior to the event. I would not pay one month in advance. I would let your wedding coordinater know that you do not intend to pay one month in advance and will have the money for the vendors on wedding day.
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mean, once we give them all the money what keeps them from just running off with it....the reason why they started the whole pay-half-now-half-later concept was so they were "guaranteed" to do what they agreed...
Do you really think they wouldn't show up/do what they have promised to do? I wouldn't want to pay my vendors a month in advance either, but I don't want to be remembering to pay a ton of vendors the day of the wedding. I was planning on paying most people the week before the wedding...is this a completely bad idea?
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It generally isn't necessary to pay off all of your vendors one month ahead of time. Check your each of your vendors contracts -- date and amount for final payments should be in them.

Keep in mind that there are some vendors that you probably won't even see on your wedding day -- particularly your baker and florist -- so they are a couple vendors who'll require payment in advance.

On the flip side -- there are some photographers and videographers who don't require final payment until the final product is completed, and often times the caterer won't have a final amount until that evening. So there is no need to pay them off in advance. However, this depends on what you've agreed to in your contracts.

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what keeps them from just running off with it.
Their reputations. It's incredibly hard to recover from a major mistake. You've got to have trust in your vendors. If you fear them running off with your money, they may be the wrong vendors for you.

I always require my final payment to be 2 weeks prior to the wedding. In over 12 years, I've only had one bride question this policy, however it is a policy I stick to. If I were to "run off with the money," my career would be over in a heartbeat. No reputable vendor would remotely consider running off.

Your coordinator should be in contact with every one of your vendors the week of your wedding, confirming EVERYTHING. Since we are human, this will ensure that times, dates, places, etc. aren't accidently forgotten.
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However, this depends on what you've agreed to in your contracts.
My contracts require final payment the day of the wedding. The whole paying up a month before was her idea.
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I know this is a little late, but I didn't pay anyone until the exact day the vendors needed them. I left it up to my FIL to make the payment to the DJ on the day of the wedding, and I think that was the only vendor that needed payment that day. I had a one or two that needed them a few days prior. I wouldn't worry about anyone running off with your money. Unless it's a brand new vendor, I would think it's pretty rare.
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Some of ours want paid on the day, some in advance...

On the day:
The bus hire
the band (wants cash! )

A week before:
the florist
the hotel (for the reception: meal, service etc)
the funeral company (for the limos)
the kilt hire company
the baker (wedding cake)

a month before:
the photographer (but we were late paying him he was OK about it though...)
the master of ceremonies.


I guess it all comes down to the contract.
It seems the more expensive services have to be paid further in advance, I guess it is so they can cover themselves in case anything goes wrong...
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