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Old 03-28-2006, 11:02 PM
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Ok, I know this is going to sound really silly. But I need help. I have a recently married couple (friends of mine) that I want to invite to the ceremony, especially since they invited me to theirs. There is also another friend, (male and single) that they always hang out with and is best friends with the couple. My dillema is not having enough room to invite him to the ceremony. (I'm not as close to him as the couple is-I don't hang out with just him generally.) If I just invite him to the reception, I'm afraid that he'll be insulted, and he probably would not come b/c he's horrible at directions. I think I may have to squeeze him in...or I don't know.
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Old 03-28-2006, 11:06 PM
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A question: Why are you considering inviting this guy to the reception if you don't really hang out with him? Are you only considering inviting him because he hangs out with the couple you're inviting? If that's the case, you don't need to invite the other guy at all.
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Old 03-28-2006, 11:19 PM
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I hang out with him too, I'm just not as close to him as the couple is. I guess I didn't make myself very clear....I confused myself when I re-read my post, lol. I may be ok...I'm playing with the list now, so we'll see.
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Old 03-28-2006, 11:22 PM
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I hear what you're saying. I doubt that a single guy would be upset at not being invited to the ceremony. Most guys I know (single or otherwise) would rather just attend the party anyway. If you want him there to hang out and celebrate with you afterward, go ahead and invite him.
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Old 03-28-2006, 11:29 PM
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Ok, nevermind...I'm good on numbers. Matter of fact, I could even invite a few more to the ceremony....sweet.
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Old 03-29-2006, 01:12 AM
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well if you have room...I think I'm free June 17th - hahaha.... funny how when you have such a burning question, once you write it out and re-read it a few times you get your answer, right??
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