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cru5h · #1 03-14-2006, 06:07 PM

How do you prefer that your man be groomed?

ETA: some clarifications.

as bald as possible (chest, back, butt, crotch whatever) - meaning he shaves whatever is hairy about him with a razor or nairs himself and it's relatively hair free in the areas mentioned above.

everything trimmed (clippers, scissors), but not bald - He keeps the areas mentioned above (if hairy in the first place) trimmed, but doesn't use a razor most of the time.

Keep it trimmed below the belt, hairy everywhere else doesn't bother me "Everywhere else" means that chest and/or back may be hairy as long as his crotch is kept trimmed or shaved even.

I don't mind him furry all over - meaning, you actually like all his man-hair wherever it may be and would prefer he not shave.

I honestly never notice that stuff. - meaning you do not care if he does any of the above.

THIS DOES NOT INCLUDE ARMS OR LEGS

Lizbet · #2 03-14-2006, 06:13 PM

Yep. It doesn't matter to me at all. DH has his preferences for himself, but I don't care one way or the other.

feb-bride · #3 03-14-2006, 06:20 PM

ETA: I posted before I saw the poll. I voted for "as bald as possible" - but that does not include the arms and legs. There's not actually a poll choice for how I like a man's hair to be, but "as bald as possible" is the closest there was to how I like a man's hair.

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I'm going to guess that you mean ALL hair, so forgive me if I reply with more information than you are looking for.

I like a man with a small amount (or no) hair on the chest. I don't like a shaved-chest man, but I do like it if he naturally doesn't have a lot of chest hair.

I love it when the "trail" of hair from a man's navel to his nether regions is on the darkish side, but I don't like it to be a lot of hair.

I love men with shaved heads or really short buzz cuts/flat tops (the head on top of their necks for you perverts out there). I always try to get my husband to shave his head, but to no avail. I have never been attracted to a man with long hair.

Backs - NO HAIR! I had one boyfriend with some hair on his back, and I literally could not look at him when he didn't have a shirt on. Sorry if any of your men have back hair, but I cannot handle looking at it.

Crotch (you knew I was going to get there eventually!) - The less hair, the better, particularly when you're giving mouth love.

ETA: I am lucky. My man hardly has any hair in the areas covered by this poll (chest, back, crotch).

cru5h · #4 03-14-2006, 06:23 PM

Richy is insanely hairy (chest and other places) and sometimes he lets it grow out. I don't like it - at all. I told him the other night, "once it curls over three times, it's time to trim." LOL He goes and busts out the clippers right there.

psycho. I'm not a fan of the fur

cru5h · #5 03-14-2006, 06:23 PM

I'll edit the original post - I do not mean arms and legs.

cru5h · #6 03-14-2006, 06:29 PM

OK I like Feb's style of posting. If you want to elaborate, go for it

Complicated Woman · #7 03-14-2006, 06:32 PM

Well, I can't comment fully, but I like the way Tom's body hair is...just a little on the chest, none on the back...and since he is a very well groomed guy I am assuming he keeps up on everything down there...he actually trims the hair off of the top of his feet because it makes him too warm in his socks.

I'm naturally attracted to men with a fair amount of body hair, but not too much. No little boys or monkeys...

If I was with a guy who had a hairy back I'd want him to shave it. Everything else can stay as is, IMO, as long as down there is kept neat and the back is smooth.

cru5h · #8 03-14-2006, 06:34 PM

I'm SO glad that for all the hair on Richy's chest there is almost none on his back. Like you couldn't describe him as a guy with a furry back. Sure, he's wearing a pelt on his chest, but his back's just dandy.

ljeagle · #9 03-14-2006, 06:51 PM

Kenny and I was talking about this over the weekend. I didn't notice he shaved and he ask why I never say any thing. I just never pay attention to what he looks like. His hair on his chest would be ok if it wasn't spotty. Also I would love to dye his face hair to be the same color as his head hair.

cru5h · #10 03-14-2006, 06:53 PM

What do you guys think about armPIT hair on men? I don't mind it, but I don't like seeing the crap peeking out of tanktops and stuff, lookin' like he has Don King in a headlock. Keep it trimmed along with everything else.

feb-bride · #11 03-14-2006, 06:59 PM

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What do you guys think about armPIT hair on men? I don't mind it, but I don't like seeing the crap peeking out of tanktops and stuff, lookin' like he has Don King in a headlock. Keep it trimmed along with everything else.

I can't STAND a ton of armpit hair. When it shows while wearing a shirt, it's time to trim/shave it!

Complicated Woman · #12 03-14-2006, 07:33 PM

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I can't STAND a ton of armpit hair. When it shows while wearing a shirt, it's time to trim/shave it!

Agreed.

wembley · #13 03-14-2006, 08:41 PM

FH has a beard in the winter and a goatee in the summer. He will always have facial hair. I like it though. As for the rest of the hair, I don't mind. He's not an overly hair guy, just a little on the chest and nothing on the back. Overall, he keeps himself neat and I like that. No hair at all would be a little weird I think. I guess I've never tried though so I wouldn't know.

munchkin · #14 03-14-2006, 08:47 PM

Neatly groomed facial hair is fine. Anything else has to go. Luckily DJ isn't too furry in the first place, but any hair he has gets shaven off because both of us hate it.

SuzyBride · #15 03-14-2006, 08:51 PM

I don't like facial hair, a little stubble is OK though. Josh doesn't have a hairy back thank goodness! He does have a hairy chest and belly, but not too much and I kinda like it. He isn't very hairy down there either which is nice.

feb-bride · #16 03-14-2006, 08:55 PM

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I don't like facial hair, a little stubble is OK though.

Neither do I - which is funny considering that my husband has a moustache. He's NEVER shaved it off, even though I keep on begging him.

Now stubble - I *love* stubble on a man's face. I don't know why, but it's just so darned sexy.

Heather · #17 03-14-2006, 09:46 PM

Mike is half Italian and half Irish - phsyically he's more Italian. No back hair thank god... He has a nice amount of chest hair, not too much, not too little, everything/where else is perfect for me.

I don't know that we've actually discussed trimming "down there". I think he may do it once in a while, and I do it all the time. No Welcome Back Kotter for me. Drives me nuts and I'm sure he would notice if I didn't.

Sh@ks18 · #18 03-14-2006, 09:47 PM

I absolutely loooove gotee's on a guy. He can be really ugly, but a gotee will work miracles on him lol ....ok well not really

I like a guys chest to just have a little bit or none at all and the back completely bare. Anything else i can deal with

abyss · #19 03-15-2006, 06:20 PM

FH is asian, there's not a lot of hair anywhere (he may even have less than me!

), I honestly don't notice anywhere other than the face, he shaves every day and I love it, I HATE facial hair.

feb-bride · #20 03-15-2006, 06:31 PM

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FH is asian, there's not a lot of hair anywhere (he may even have less than me!

), I honestly don't notice anywhere other than the face, he shaves every day and I love it, I HATE facial hair.

My husband is Asian, too (Japanese to be exact). I guess Asian men just aren't very hairy!

cru5h · #21 03-15-2006, 07:06 PM

lucky. Richy is a Puerto Rican furball.

Marrying_the_Good_Husband · #22 03-15-2006, 07:33 PM

LOL! I've been trying to avoid this thread because, personally, I don't necessarily need to be picturing all of your hubbies' body hair or them shaving it or whatever!

But, whew! Not so bad!

Dave is relatively hairless for being 100% Italian. But if he was hairy, it wouldn't really bother me, either. I once dated a guy who used to get his back waxed. I guess that's better than the alternative of it not being waxed!

feb-bride · #23 03-15-2006, 07:35 PM

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I once dated a guy who used to get his back waxed. I guess that's better than the alternative of it not being waxed!

Wow - and some people think I'm crazy for having my EYEBROWS waxed. I cannot imagine how much it would hurt to have such a large area of skin waxed.

Marrying_the_Good_Husband · #24 03-15-2006, 07:39 PM

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Wow - and some people think I'm crazy for having my EYEBROWS waxed. I cannot imagine how much it would hurt to have such a large area of skin waxed.

Oh, he was all-out "metrosexual." He used to go to spas and only used the top-of-the-line products and designer EVERYTHING--including socks and underwear. He was WAY "prettier" and more high-maintenence than me. His friend joked that he should be on "America's Next Top Model."

cru5h · #25 03-15-2006, 07:56 PM

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LOL! I've been trying to avoid this thread because, personally, I don't necessarily need to be picturing all of your hubbies' body hair or them shaving it or whatever!

But, whew! Not so bad!

So you're saying you don't want me to tell you whether or not Richy sports a 'fro in his boxers huh?