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deputysgurl · #1 02-28-2006, 04:02 AM

I was thinking that instead of the groomsman walking in behind the groom (like all the weddings I have seen), if it would look ok to have them escort the bridesmaids down the aisle. I think it would be cute. If you think it would be too much please tell me. I really need to get this figured out.

Also I need ideas on waht to have my step-dad wear. He made me promise him that I wouldn't make him wear a tux to walk me down the aisle, so what could I have him wear?

Also if i am doing all traditional songs, what song does the bridal party walk into and what do we walk out to?

Lets just say I am a little clueless right now.

ljeagle · #2 02-28-2006, 04:07 AM

I have seen the grooms men walk in the brides maid but the moh walks in by her self cause the best man stays with the groom at all time. I have seen it done both ways my fh ask me to please don't make his son walk my MOH down the aisle. lol Don't ask he is a nut!

My father is wearing a dress jack and matching pants.

Songs don't get me started I haven't figured it out yet.

michaelsbride · #3 02-28-2006, 04:10 AM

ya know... im glad someone else pointed this out...

I have never seen the bridesmaids be walked down the aisle by the groomsmen... but almost all of my friends AND my FH say this is the way its always done...

I'm certainly NOT doing it because im going to have a full processional with music set according to who is walking down (e.g. speed racer for when the ring bearer goes down in his tricycle, possibly "isnt she lovely" when i walk down)

but im glad im not the only one who hasnt seen the groomsmen walk the bridesmaids down! hehe

Kim&Bob2004 · #4 02-28-2006, 06:08 AM

Every wedding I have been too (except ours) had the groomsmen walking the bridal party down the aisle.

At our wedding Boob and the "men" were waiting up at the front before we even started down. We did ours different from other people, and while some people mentioned it was different "in a nice way", it was done the way we wanted. I just wish I had known of this site then...... I looked and looked for people that would give me advice! Praise God for my flutist who really gave some needed guidance!

I think anything you decide will be perfect! It's your day girl!

Cirig · #5 02-28-2006, 12:49 PM

Every wedding I have EVER been to had the bridesmaids being escorted by the groomsmen.

The groom, and best man are already up in front (altar,where ever) the girls/guys with each other, MOH walks alone, & of course the family and Bride. Not in that order

fallbride · #6 02-28-2006, 12:52 PM

I would say do to the wedding how YOU want. I have changed soemthings for my wedding, and I really don't care if some people don't like it. I have seen it done both ways, which ever you choose will be fine.

Marrying_the_Good_Husband · #7 02-28-2006, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by michaelsbride

yI'm certainly NOT doing it because im going to have a full processional with music set according to who is walking down (e.g. speed racer for when the ring bearer goes down in his tricycle

Oh, my gosh! That will be adorable!!

breezy · #8 02-28-2006, 03:31 PM

I have only seen it IRL where the groomsmen escort the BM. In pics I have seen the groomsmen waiting in the front.
What ever YOU want and works for you.

Lizbet · #9 02-28-2006, 04:03 PM

For my wedding the groom and BestM walked in with the preacher and stood up front. The processional started with the entrance of the GMs (individually) then the BridesMs, MOH, RB, & FG.

For the recessional the GMs and BestM escorted the BridesMs and MOH out.

I'm sure it can be done either way. This just worked better for us with the music we picked (to have a longer processional and shorter recessional).

syringa · #10 02-28-2006, 10:11 PM

It is tradition in the Catholic church for the men to walk in with the groom. At most other weddings, the groomsmen escort the bridesmaids, including the best man and MOH, unless there is an uneven number of attendants. Occasionally, the best man will enter with the groom and then the MOH will enter alone. Otherwise, the groom and the minister enter together, then the men with the ladies.

Do what you would like to do. It is your wedding and today we have great freedom in the way we do things. If you would like to have the guys escort the girls, then go for it.

feb-bride · #11 02-28-2006, 10:19 PM

The last time I was at a wedding where the groomsmen walked the bridesmaids down the aisle was in the 80s.

I was raised Catholic; most of my family and friends are/were Catholic. In Catholic ceremonies, the groomsmen walk in the side door with the groom and the priest. The bridesmaids and MOH walk down the aisle unescorted; they are only escorted during the recessional at the end of the ceremony.

I say do what you want. It's your wedding.

555Ann555 · #12 02-28-2006, 10:38 PM

I've not seen the BMs being escorted by the GM but I think it'd be quite nice...

I'd ask your dad if he would wear a nice suit. Is he just against wearing a tux or does he not like formal wear in general. I don't know what to suggest if he won't wear a suit...

My Stepdad is refusing to wear a kilt.

I wish he would; because he'd look more like part of the family rather than a guest...

sparklesweetie · #13 03-01-2006, 03:37 AM

I also agree, do what you want. My BMs are walking in solo, mostly b/c it's the biggest PITA to have to match steps with someone you are unfamiliar with. Plus, my aisle is not very wide at all, I'm concerned about my dad and I getting down it. I'll probably have them all escorted out...not for sure yet.

Kim&Bob2004 · #14 03-01-2006, 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by deputysgurl

Also I need ideas on waht to have my step-dad wear. He made me promise him that I wouldn't make him wear a tux to walk me down the aisle, so what could I have him wear?

Also if i am doing all traditional songs, what song does the bridal party walk into and what do we walk out to?

I would see if your step dad could wear a nice suit. I think he could even rent one.

As far as songs that would be best, I didn't have a "traditional" wedding so I am at a loss on that, we had Loch Lamond for the girls and traditional piper music for me and upon leaving we all walked out to Scotland the brave..... I would ask your pianist her/his suggestions. I asked my flutist/pianist a lot of questions and you would be surprised at the knowledge they have of weddings. She was very encouraging to me, despite our unusual wedding (I didn't think it was at the time!). Course I have been to more funerals then weddings.........

Anyway, you of course have the traditional bridal march, and I like Allegro from Brandenburg Concerto #4 in G it has a kind of lightness to it. There is Four Seasons "Autumn" that is nice too, we have the CD somewhere (Bob likes Classical). Bach has a lot of interesting movements also. Maybe try a google search on wedding marches or bridal music.

TheaterDiva1 · #15 03-01-2006, 09:33 PM

Actually, every wedding I've been to had GM's walk BM's doun the aisle. Best man stands up frint with the groom, and only the MOH walks alone.

If your stepdad won't wear a tux, will he wear a nice suit with a tie that coordinates with the other guys'?

And I walked in to the ubiquitous "Here Comes The Bride" and walked out to Mendelsohn's Wedding March.