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Old 06-08-2009, 12:38 PM
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I am in the beginning of a new age of my life and asking myself so many questions. Is he really a right person for me, are we compatible? I see many online tests checking your love compatibility.. Are these all bullshits or is there something?
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Old 06-08-2009, 03:43 PM
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The reality is no relationship test or quiz will tell you if you should be with someone or not. Tests can be helpful tools to help you look at the various factors of compatibility, etc - but at the end of the day you're the one that needs to make that determination.

I have a tool that is a little different from others in that it assesses your emotional safety level. It's called Healthy Relationships: Assessing the Emotional Safety.

Lastly - listen to your instincts. What are they telling you?
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Old 11-02-2009, 06:10 AM
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dont rely too much on tests, there is no tool that you can measure the compatibility of being the right one for someone its a matter of understanding and love. follow your heart.
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