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Old 05-12-2009, 11:34 AM
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Default legally changing your last name

What do I need to bring?

Where do I go? If I change my social security card does that cover for everything or do I have to go to all the offices?

How soon can I go change it? We are off the week after the wedding and not going anywhere until Weds, so can I go on Mon or Tues?

How long does it take to go into effect?

What else?
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Old 05-12-2009, 12:38 PM
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You have to have your signed and sealed marriage license (ML) after the wedding. The officiant will send it to whereever he/she has to send it, then you'll get official copies back in the mail. Usually about a week later if it's sent out right after your wedding.

Start at the DMV. All you have to bring is your current license and a copy of your marriage license. It's easier to work with the Social Security office and other agencies if your license is switched - but have a copy of your marriage license with you just in case. (The ML will probably suffice at Social Security if you don't want to wait for your new license, but it'll save you a headache.)

So - DMV, then Social Security office. Both of these will help with the other places you'll have to change it like:

Passport
• Post Office
• IRS
• Voter Registration (usually taken care of by Drivers license or post office)
• Banks
• Credit Cards
• Doctors
• Insurance Companies
• Clubs
• Memberships
• Employer
• Retirement plans

You'll also need to adjust any legal documentation:
• Will
• Health Care Proxy
• Living Will
• Trust
• Power of Attorney
• Contracts
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Old 05-12-2009, 05:37 PM
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Heather's got a good list there. I recommend doing the SS change in person and not by mail...they lost my application that I sent by mail (SS did, not the post office) and it took me weeks to even find out...it took me 30 minutes to take care of in person.

Also, be sure that anyone else who had legal documents with your name (are you anyone's beneficiary? etc) changes it on there as well. Not crucial, but a good idea.
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Old 05-29-2009, 11:10 PM
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Heather's got a good list there. I recommend doing the SS change in person and not by mail...they lost my application that I sent by mail (SS did, not the post office) and it took me weeks to even find out...it took me 30 minutes to take care of in person.
Scary. I hate sending my SS through the mail. Do it in person.

In any case my sister went through this last year and she was telling that if you should take a day off and get this done. Be the first in line for SS change and after that everything else is much easier. But first make sure to take the day off.
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