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08-14-2007, 02:21 AM
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well....
...I guess it's time to share....
Michael and I are getting our marriage annulled (I know some of you are saying "Wow not surprised"...but that's okay...I say it myself).
We have become very good friends.... to the point that our marriage has collapsed. I brought it up to him and at first he seemed relieved and then he was mad and now he just wants to make sure I'm okay.
Our year anniversary is quickly approaching so we're trying to get it finished before then. My parents have been looking for a place here in N. KY to use when they're in town so they are speeding that process up and I can live there as long as I need. In addition, Michael has said I can stay here as long as I need and he also said he'd continue helping me with extra money when I need it. He said he just wants to make sure I'm taken care of as long as I need it.
It was time. We weren't being enough for each other. We made a mistake but we tried. I think we can remain friends and always care about each other. There is no blame just bittersweet memories.
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08-14-2007, 02:47 AM
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08-14-2007, 02:57 AM
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08-14-2007, 03:06 AM
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08-14-2007, 03:21 AM
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Wow, sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you both.
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08-14-2007, 03:35 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that.
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08-14-2007, 03:45 AM
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Sorry to hear that. I hope your transition goes well.
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08-14-2007, 03:45 AM
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08-14-2007, 03:54 AM
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08-14-2007, 04:00 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear this. It is still a loss.
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08-14-2007, 04:18 AM
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I'm so sorry.
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08-14-2007, 04:33 AM
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Sorry to hear
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08-14-2007, 05:10 AM
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I'm really sorry but I'm glad that you are still friends and still are able to show that you care about each other.
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08-14-2007, 11:28 AM
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08-14-2007, 12:36 PM
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You seem like you've really thought this out and considered all your options. Cyber-hugs to you!
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08-14-2007, 02:20 PM
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08-14-2007, 04:22 PM
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08-14-2007, 04:58 PM
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I am really sorry to hear this. Even though you both are okay with the decision, it still can't be easy.
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08-14-2007, 05:51 PM
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So sorry to hear of any marriage coming apart. hugs to you.
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08-14-2007, 06:31 PM
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I'm so sorry!
At least you still care for each other.
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08-14-2007, 07:42 PM
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08-14-2007, 07:57 PM
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I'm glad you two can still be friends and help each other out in this difficult time.
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08-14-2007, 08:22 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear it didn't work out for you two. I'm glad he's still there for you. It sounds like everything is going to be ok.
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08-14-2007, 10:12 PM
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08-14-2007, 10:30 PM
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Sorry you have to go thru all of this. I am glad you have thought things thru and realized you made a mistake before you got to far into the marriage and had kids. . .
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